Thursday, August 21, 2008

tafseer of Ayatul Kursi:

"Wajib ul wujud, therefore, means the self-existing existence of the ever-living and self-subsisting creator. To maintain His self-existing existence He must be an omnipotent authority who not only owns absolute knowledge of the existence but also the will that does what it wills.


"All the attributes of Allah are one absolute unity, because, if they are not, then it would mean complexity, which negates the absolute independence of the omnipotent authority. His existence means His authority, His authority means His knowledge, and likewise all His attributes are so linked together that they are one indivisible unity. Allah is a transcendental reality. He is unknowable."


" Imam Ali says:
O He!
O He whom none knows what He is,
nor how He is,
nor where He is,
nor in what respect He is;
except He. (Dua al-Mashlul) "

arabic

Inkuntumtuhibbunallah


fattabi'uni


yuhbibkumullah


la ikraha fiddeen -
no compulsion in religion


Qadtabayyanar Rushdu Minal Ghay -
Truth is very clear cut from Falsehood


Urwatil Wuthqaa -
tightest rope that never breaks

Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Strange & Ridiculous

The strange thing about men is that when a woman is loving AND willing to walk away froma relationship that isn't good enough for her...men become instantly ENGAGED on an emotional level and want to find a way to be a betterpartner and make her happy.
But if a man senses from your emotions thatyou are more attached to the relationship thanyou are to your own happiness- he'll often startthinking of your relationship as less valuable to him.

APPRECIATION ALL THAT IS

There's 1 thing that every woman has to keepin her heart and mind as a kind of "guide" for herself in order to both attract the right man,and to create the right kind of healthy and lasting relationship between them.
And that one thing is YOUR OWN VISION of what a GREAT RELATIONSHIP looks like for you.
I'm talking about the kind of relationship thatfills you and makes you the most beautiful andinspired woman you can be.
You might think of this as your "highest self"in love.
A simple way to put this is having your own STANDARDS.
Living to your own standards means not just wanting a certain life, but living that life yourself regardless of others. (Men)
Too many women fall into the trap of NOT having their relationship live up to what theywant, and instead of observing this and adjustingtheir life and relationship for the better...
They create more pain in their lives by finding all kinds of ways to keep struggling AGAINSTthe very things that aren't working.
Here's a helpful way to think about thesekinds of situations-
When you PUSH on something that doesn't move, it means that what you are pushing on is moved to RESIST YOU with a force greater than or equal tothe force you are pushing with.
This is a law of physics and the world aroundyou.
When you push against a feeling, or a person,or a relationship... guess what happens?
That thing also RESISTS.
This is how we often trap ourselves, and getcaught in our own patterns of struggle.
Following your standards in relationships doesn't mean PUSHING on a man to be different,or convincing him to change.
Following your standards means quietly observing the life and love you are choosing to create and share - and being the one person in charge of making sure you are living the kind of life and relationship you desire.
When you observe your own life with love andcompassion for yourself, it becomes clear to youwhat is right and wrong for you.
And more importantly...
You don't end up settling for less than you deserve. And you end up TEACHING those closestto you how to love and respect you.
Now, there's a little trick about having standards for yourself and living up to them.
When you choose to live your life the way you really want it, then there's a beautiful price you pay in relationships -
If you receive anything less than what you want or expect from a man, you aren't allowed to fall apart and dwell in what he hasn't given you.
Going to a place of blame and criticism is not part of your "best" or "higher" self.
When you have chosen to create and live your own life, and you have taken the responsibility for loving another... it is YOUR PLACE to remainthat "whole person" you are who doesn't NEED andDEMAND what you want from a man.
But instead chooses to INSPIRE the kind of love you want to share, and gives love freely whenyou have chosen to.

walk away

Often times we have to be willing to face our fears and LET GO of what we want in order to clear a new path for ourselves.
And by doing this, we open up space to let new things in that couldn't get in or become clear to us before.
And while this act of opening up feels scary at first...
The new space it creates allows us to start RECEIVING the love that we've been missing. And this is when we can stop searching outside ourselves for the love we want, and recognize all the places where we don't see or feel love.

Tuesday, January 8, 2008

Anak Melayu.com

Very happy berkenalan dengan orang2 kat am ni. Ade black sheep, ade tak layan, ade .. macam2 ragam la.

But i think im not renewing my subscription. Hopefully siape yang 'fated' haha see my profile tu, come to blog and taruk comments

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banquet

i tak faham kenape ade orang tak suke makan kat banquet???

big and small

i tak faham kenape kalau kite orang kecik (pangkat la bukan badan oii), kite macam tak suke gitu kalau orang lain mention a bit pun pasal another party yang besar..

orchard road, boat quay, hotels

Bile agaknye tiba masa di mana owang mlayu kite kahwin kat hotel heeemy dream is kat chevron. its a club.selain bawah blok, banyak jugak skarang yang ade majlis kat cc eh. =)

cleaners, buruh kasar etc

me tak pernah pandang rendah ppl yang keje bukan ape tu white collar eh?tapi kenape dia orang tak mau kawan dengan kite???kalau set up a family dengan orang yang tak setaraf pun what is the problem!!!yang penting yang taat setia. nah kalau da tak sepadan PLUS main kayu tiga (or worse kayu empat) tu, then baik putus la. dari sakit ati kan kan kan

nurses/hospitals

banyak personal experiences berkenaan dengan hospitals and owang2nye.from work related to relationship related sampai tak tau acam mane nak handle. kalau la kite ni macam robot boleh bukak scre kepala lepas tu taruk chip yang baru.even then, kalau face same thing again, takkan asyik nak bukak tutup bukak tutup aje hahahhabut really unforgettable and deep past